my favorite store

so, to give my husband the afternoon off,
the kids and I strolled down to 79th st.
got a brownie and a cup of tea, earl grey-yuck
server's mistake,
bought shampoo, albuterol for the asthmatics
of the abode and passed my favorite store.
Not that I have ever shopped here~
i could have in the spring when nearing goal
weight-but I am nowhere near that now.
and the prices are silly. 80.00 for a kid's
Beatle teeshirt. so see, I actually couldn't.
(it's kids and mommy clothes
in one small store)
but, just if there is a special occasion, sometime
down the road, I decide to log it in my boy's strong memory.
"Buddy, just in case you wanna tell Papa? this is my favorite store."
He looks in the window, trying to make out a name.
"Sale? that's the name?" (I actually think he said Sally)
"No, it's up there. See, CPW"
he pauses.
"Spew? that's the name of the store, Mommy, Spew?"
brilliant.

and as my wise friend Dana said,
honestly, even if we could spend that kinda money on clothes,
would we dress much different than our current frocks
of tee shirts, sweaters and jeans?

do you want that gift wrapped?

so, since our apartment is so, how shall we say....cozy?
I have found it impossible to wrap the gifts this year.
someone is in one room
and
someone is invariably, in the,
how shall we say....
other room.
my solution?







yup, martha and I
outside
wrapping on the hood of the car...
in the hood.
some passersby guffawed,
some said, Now I've seen everything,
some said they would coming out to wrap their gifts on their hoods.
Martha and I have started a holiday trend on 92nd st.

Better

she's better!
perky, hating breathing treatments, and throwing things.
all better.
now the rest of us are withering.....
hoping to get to Mass. for Christmas~
we will see....

HOME ?

well, she is sicker.
(is that a word?)
can you believe it?
Dr. Ward thinks perhaps she caught the
stomach flu at hospital?
I dunno. she looks awful-way worse
than before. pale, thin, listless.
gotta wait to see if she goes back to hospital,
dr. ward says. and Dr. Karen, who came with me to
Dr. Ward's.

love to have you all over for dinner this weekend to thank you-but hey, that ain't gonna happen. perhaps I will send out the 125 christmas cards I have had sitting here since 2 days before thanksgiving.
or just wash alot of throwup sheets and clothes.

HOME

the bell of the ball of the ICU is home!
home today with many drugs and so happy to see her puppies and brother!

we are thankful to all of you.
tom w. was at the er almost before the ambulance for heaven's sake,
matty B and Webb stopped by to pray over her,
steve and cade did the same-
victor has called every day-
Tim took over for scott sunday night at church so he could take
home the kid sprawled out asleep in the pews-
so lovely our wonderful Elders and pastoral staff-a sincere thanks.
special 'much obliged to ya' goes to Laran, Pecks, Lindsells, Clementes, Charis, Melissa, Kay and
dog whisperer extrodinare Ellie!
we are so so so so so thankful to you!!!!

(last year/this year)

boy, does she say it better than I

from my beautiful friend laran to
my mom's group yesterday:

Girls
Please forgive the tardiness of this news.
On Thursday night Honor Crosby (Anne Marie's
2 year old daughter) was taken to the
ER for a severe asthma attack by ambulance.
She was placed in ICU in order for them to keep her
hooked up to oxygen and closely monitor.
There have been high hopes that she would
be able to come day after day but they are
unable to keep oxygen intake at a satisfactory
level. They gave her new antibiotic today in
hopes that it will kick the struggle. She is in
a regular room but they are repeatedly requesting
a more child friendly facility as it is impossible for
her sleep therefore very hard to keep her calm
and then that sets the whole breathing issue
back into play. She must stay in the hospital
a full 24 hours after her oxygen is removed.
Please pray that they will be able to take her off
tomorrow and then they will return home on Wednesday.


As for now pray for a very good nights sleep for ALL, no
oxygen tomorrow and stamina for Anne Marie and Scott
to be a wise advocates.


Laran

and from scott last night:
After several hours of laps around 6 North, oxygen tank in tow, Honor finally drifted off around 10:30PM this evening. She's resting peacefully. We have a nurse named Hunter who rocks. We've been moved to a (currently) private room and it is towards the back corner of the floor - not much noise and lights are nice and low. Thank you for your prayers. Please, keep 'em up!

hacking

ok, was allowed computer time here at hospital at 2 am. feel like a hacker! was able to figure out passwords to get in.
honor's counts still drop at night.
I thought for sure she would be home thursday night and she is still here. and let me tell you-we could not have gotten through that night without the amazing, sacrificial love of Ellie Hoch and Karen Clemente-they were both incredible-scott was in philly and ellie stayed the night with ez, walked dogs, got him up ready for Geneva and to the bus by 7:30! and Karen stayed by my side till 1:30-I cry when I think of both of them. Now there's some serving the body of Christ eh? humbling for me.
Honors ox levels fall at night making her dependant on oxygen. she is getting prednisone, breathing treatments and today, finally, more antibiotics, which will help. all normal for pneumonia and asthma (which they say she has) but it is taking a while to stabilize her.
now that they have moved us out of quiet, peaceful, cozy, river view icu where I shared her bed and put her breathing tube back in and the nurse did treatments all night long for her to
motel 6,
girl, we ain't sleepin' and her counts keep dropping.
she is in those big ole cribs and keeps taking out her tubing which sets the nurse a running.
the lady next to us has had her newborn in the room for a while.
she is entertaining guests with TV blaring at 2 am.
no joke.
ah, but I complain.
phil 2:14.
her counts have to stay stable, without oxygen, for 24 hours, before she can go home. either scott or I stay with her round the clock and the other handles ez, ironing, and dog whispering.

love to all.